tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post3829618304929505664..comments2023-10-31T06:01:21.781-04:00Comments on love,elizabeth: CastlesElizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11889294120616809157noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-14917059059530928882012-02-27T21:10:44.090-05:002012-02-27T21:10:44.090-05:00Facebook just isn't the same. Your last blog ...Facebook just isn't the same. Your last blog post was on my birthday. I know this situation is hard on everyone involved, and it doesn't get easier. <br /><br />I came back from my long blog hiatus to find that most of my cyber friends have also been absent ... it makes me sad. As if I thought I could just slack off while everyone else kept at their keyboards, awaiting my return. Sigh. I have missed everyone's stories. The FB updates are nice to keep up, to laugh, to reach out, but I miss the stories.more cowbellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17867825812404503048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-44322142034038574912012-01-05T20:41:56.940-05:002012-01-05T20:41:56.940-05:00Please make sure that you keep your friends close ...Please make sure that you keep your friends close to you at this time. I'm sure you're feeling that you don't want to burden them with constant discussion about your Mum, but you will have friends who can be supportive. Make time for them, and forgive the ones who are unable to connect.<br />It will be over one day, and you'll feel relief, and guilt about the relief you feel. There is and will be help, thanks to the internet. If it helps, I'm going to be thinking of you, and sending you love.Yankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06309872309564393384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-88325305747500097602011-09-26T11:55:55.018-04:002011-09-26T11:55:55.018-04:00Dear Elizabeth
Your mother is lucky to have a cari...Dear Elizabeth<br />Your mother is lucky to have a caring daughter like you. I know there are even more demands on your reserves of strength at this time, and I hope your great spirit is bolstered by the many people that care about you too.<br />Gabi (Flamenconut)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-63070111436986678672011-05-01T12:00:51.001-04:002011-05-01T12:00:51.001-04:00Elizabeth? How are you doing?
I am digging out new...Elizabeth? How are you doing?<br />I am digging out news of you by reading the blogs of your blog friends, to avoid making you talk on the phone. It feels creepy, but their blogs are wonderful. Sending love, ATWBmumblisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17068646338558302196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-74869029709887958862011-04-20T11:05:43.980-04:002011-04-20T11:05:43.980-04:00Lots of love going out to you and your Mom. I thin...Lots of love going out to you and your Mom. I think about this stuff a lot with my own parents..it's never easy and quite often bitterly unfair. I'm glad that you could convince her to stay with you.Eartha Kitschhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08189308677139650882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-69586929405946525202011-04-19T13:42:24.926-04:002011-04-19T13:42:24.926-04:00And in my sandcastle research i found a quote from...And in my sandcastle research i found a quote from gibran that is a less elegant description of life and loss than yours...<br /><br />will find it and send an emailLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020762171401291148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-35116194378246873712011-04-19T13:39:27.906-04:002011-04-19T13:39:27.906-04:00That's so funny...I was thinking about sandcas...That's so funny...I was thinking about sandcastles too and wrote a blog entry and then read this! Ah...we're so in sync! <br />xoxLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020762171401291148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-391896787821797942011-04-09T14:51:40.767-04:002011-04-09T14:51:40.767-04:00While oh so painful, she is beyond blessed to have...While oh so painful, she is beyond blessed to have such an amazing Daughter and such a supporting family. One can only do the best one can, but knowing you have gives her a much longer and happier life and gives you peace. You'll just have to trust me on this one.Doralonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08529026755912430796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-49416218786479376462011-03-25T20:19:44.763-04:002011-03-25T20:19:44.763-04:00Oh Elizabeth,
If I can do anything at all, please...Oh Elizabeth,<br /> If I can do anything at all, please tell me.<br />She is a person of great character and gorgeousness.. She is so stubborn, independent, distinct, delightful, and so very loving. From the beginning, I have adored her. My faraway hands are hanging.<br />My heart is breaking with love for you both and for your whole family. Mortality stinks. I try and then avoid being more mature, but I haven't turned the corner yet. My parents are my daily blessings, and unbelievably long lived. I remain in awe and anxious.<br />You are on a motorcycle, screeching and in and out of traffic passing the corner again. I am running behind you with a helmet but I cannot catch up. If I can give you orange slices at the designated spot, or spray your wonderful curls and face with spritzy water, tell me. I will be there. I will try my hardest. I love you and all your beautiful people, but it doesn't seem like it is enough. how can it be?mumblisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17068646338558302196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-56659366632005876702011-03-24T02:13:51.115-04:002011-03-24T02:13:51.115-04:00Dementia runs, or wanders, though my family and re...Dementia runs, or wanders, though my family and relatives who've had it prove what I've heard: they simply become more of what they were all along underneath. The learned behaviours fall off. One grandmother and one great aunt were sweet and childish, a great grandmother was poisonous. It was just their personalities emerging.mrpeeneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05206554819014030083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-46694145524546664022011-03-22T17:21:28.219-04:002011-03-22T17:21:28.219-04:00I have that fear..of losing me.
shady lane and I m...I have that fear..of losing me.<br />shady lane and I made a deal, I get it first she comes and od's me, and vise versa..<br />Goddess bless you both.yellowdoggrannyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14906624317290990109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-45195636144043172992011-03-21T20:15:50.131-04:002011-03-21T20:15:50.131-04:00Hey Elizabeth: We are facing similar, if not, issu...Hey Elizabeth: We are facing similar, if not, issues. My mother was in the hospital for five days with the serious respiratory shit (I won't bore you with the details but it was grim). It did frighten her enormously, and now when I say, "Mom call 911, NOW!" she might actually listen to me. Are you moving? And are you going to try to stay in the same neighborhood? My sympathies and lots of hugs. No one wants to end their days afraid.Claire M. Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01714407719530073304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-79185712204694268762011-03-21T15:15:20.681-04:002011-03-21T15:15:20.681-04:00David - Thank you so much for digging up the title...David - Thank you so much for digging up the title for me! I'll order it immediately.<br /><br />Willym - You are, as ever, a dear and to know that there are candles flickering for me and mine somewhere in Rome means so much to me. xoxoElizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11889294120616809157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-56540831847137599972011-03-21T11:56:32.547-04:002011-03-21T11:56:32.547-04:00As she once was your comfort now you are becoming ...As she once was your comfort now you are becoming hers - perhaps the hardest thing a child has to face. Again I have done my little ritual with the candles. Only wish there was more I could do or say.Willymhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03652532356102638621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8133147170181934597.post-26551649171078117842011-03-21T08:18:52.080-04:002011-03-21T08:18:52.080-04:00Therefore I recommend all the more the book I ment...Therefore I recommend all the more the book I mentioned, which I've managed to track down: Contented Dementia by Oliver James. Rather counter-intuitive, but it's been a great help to friends.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14506881804082382739noreply@blogger.com