Success is relative:
It is what we can make of the mess we have made of things.
--T. S. Eliot
It's late and I have to go to bed, but I just wanted to share this quote. Here's one of the world's most "successful" poets reminding us that life is mainly accidents and screw ups and it's not the accidents and screw ups that define us, rather it's what we do with them.
So, goodnight. In the words of another major literary player, Tomorrow is another day (to spin my screw ups into gold).